Are you missing out on luck by being too accommodating?
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Hiratsuka-sensei, who seems to have no intention of flirting with men, is not a loner, but a caring older sister.
In fact, she takes care of him too much, which is probably one of the reasons why he has stayed away from marriage.
Hiratsuka-sensei is in charge of life guidance, and it is said that this position is getting harder and harder every year.
Unlike in the past, nowadays, students have their own ways of competing with teachers, and not all of them accept guidance easily.
In fact, when I tried to tell Saki Kawasaki, a student with bad behavior, “Don’t you ever think about your parents’ feelings? When he tried to tell Saki Kawasaki, a student with bad behavior, “Don’t you ever think about your parents’ feelings?” she replied, “Why don’t you say that after you get married and become a parent? When I tried to tell him, he gave me a direct counter and sank.
It’s even more difficult when you’re in such a position and you’re also the advisor of the service club.
The Service Club itself is a part of student guidance, and its purpose is to bring together problematic students and help them learn problem-solving and cooperation skills. But since Hiratsuka-sensei seems to have a deep attachment to the members of the Service Club, it must have been a considerable burden in terms of mental resources.
There are only three of us in the club, and two of them are social misfits, so just dealing with them is a challenge, but finding the good and the bad in them and guiding them correctly requires a lot of delicate care.
In short, when you’re this deeply involved with your students, it’s no wonder that your own marriage is getting away from you.
It seems that she has participated in a marriage activity party, but I can only guess what the result was.
It’s difficult for her to even find the time to go out and meet people, and if she doesn’t have the mental capacity to do so, it’s going to be tough for her to even meet a man to go out with, let alone get married.
However, she did have a boyfriend once.
Before she knew it, he had come into her house and even made her a duplicate key, so it seems that they were living together.
However, as soon as the boyfriend broke up with her, he made off with her household goods.
I don’t know if I should say that she has no luck with men, or that she has no ability to look at men, but in any case, I’m sure that the level of difficulty in getting married for Ms. Hiratsuka is at the level of breaking through the sky.
Are you the type of person who actually likes bad boys?
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As you may have guessed from the aforementioned episode where she runs away with the household goods, Hiratsuka-sensei may have a tendency to be attracted to so-called “bad boys.
It’s not so much a matter of specifications, but rather a flawed man who might be ruined if he doesn’t take care of himself.
There is a very common pattern of smart, caring women dating bad boys, and most of them are also pimps.
In the film, we see that she is embarrassed every time Hachiman says, “I like it (pickled cucumber) too” or “It’s beautiful,” so there is no doubt that she is vulnerable to compliments and kindnesses that are offered to her at a moment’s notice.
I guess he is the type of guy who can’t get enough of it when a man who is twisted, delirious, or lacking in social skills and cooperation shows a little growth.
Such men generally only indulge women and don’t even think about marriage.
Even if she were to meet a man of her choice, the road to marriage seems to be endlessly long for Hiratsuka-sensei.
Finally, I predict one serious reason.
The conversation between Hiratsuka-sensei and Yawata on the bridge at the mouth of Tokyo Bay in volume 9 of the original story (episode 8 of the second season of the anime) is one of the most famous scenes in the story, where Hiratsuka-sensei says to Yawata, “There are some things you can’t have if you care about each other. But that’s not something to be sad about. Maybe it’s something to be proud of,” and he reminisced that he had been able to do that in the past.
If you take it as it is, it could be taken as a hint that Hiratsuka-sensei had a tragic love affair or a similar experience in the past, where he was unable to fulfill a mutual love, but since nothing more was said, the truth is unknown.
The reason why she wants to get married, but lacks the practicality to go for it, may be because of her past.
Summary
Along with Komachi, she is the most understanding person of Yawata in the series, and she is the ideal teacher that no “My Youth Romantic Comedy Is Wrong As I Expected” fan can say anything bad about her, but marriage is a different story.
I want Hiratsuka-sensei to be happy, don’t you?
